Let me amuse you with my 10 top cultural differences, I discovered, about life in France.
I thought I’m very tolerant, open minded person who loves to discover and participate in different cultures. And so I thought, there is nothing that will shock me abroad especially in Europe but since I moved to France, I discovered few things that surprised me and required from me a little more flexibility than I expected….
- No hugging, a lot of kissing. As obvious as it sounds, it’s quite difficult to respect if you come from such a warm country as Poland. I think hugging is quite important in my life but I realized that only while being in France when I need to think twice before greeting someone. So I went here for compromise. I taught my close friends hugging and l try to respect kissing…and there are many situations when I do gaffes…it happens…
- No shopping on Sundays. I honestly couldn’t believe it. How you can actually stop your business for the easiest day to earn money? But this is a law and as frustrating as it was for me, I’m loving it really. Instead of unnecessary shopping which everyone would plan for day of, we can actually appreciate life different way. Thanks to this l started to participate in more cultural events and plan my Sundays better.
- No banks on Mondays, no shops, no post, no other useful services between 12-14.00. So basically it’s extremely difficult to organise anything related to post, banking, doctors, special shopping during your lunch break. I first learnt that while I had a nice list of things to do during lunchtime and wanted to be efficient… not possible in France. The French taught me… slow down, take your time, if there are things you can’t change, accept them..and have a sandwich… what leads me to my next point
- 1 or even 2 hours lunch break. Yes, it’s very true. But how long you can eat this sandwich? Well, with the French people during meals you will realise that the one hour is never enough. They are so talkative during the meals that I get speechless… it’s the real culture shock for me as in Poland, we tend to prepare food, put everything out, eat it hot quietly and than talk. Totally opposite and so true.
- So long meals. When it comes to the family meals or dinners with friends, this lasts the whole evening till midnight when you finally get your dessert, not to mention that the gathering starts at 6 or 7 pm with famous apéro – another French invention.
- Unlimited and free bread. The meaning of bread in France is totally different than elsewhere. Firstly, when they say bread: pain, they really mean baguette. So I already made a mistake having on my shopping list ‘pain’ I bought the real bread while my French friend ment baguette. Secondly, everyone eats the bread pardon… baguette.. with each meal. They don’t need to be hungry or they might finished the meal but the piece of baguette always accompanied the French meal and so another surprising fact is that the restaurans in France offer bread for free, unlimited.
- Bidet in the toilet… what’s that for? At the beginning l thought, why this useless thing takes so much space in my bathroom. Then I thought, actually it’s very useful for washing my feet and doing the foot peeling 😉 and finally they told me it’s not for feet so what is it for?
- Not wine only. Actually, it’s more more beer that the French people drink than wine. Of course, this is a country of the wine and there is the whole wine etiquette in France. However, for going out and getting drunk, the beer is one of the main drinks.
- 50cl not 500ml! I have learned that very quickly, when I was baking my first cake in France., I assumed that the cream is 250ml so happily poured it into my cake mixture. It came like a small disappear. I prefer to call it a very good lesson. As now, I do know that French use cl not ml… they like to be a bit different. For me, it’s always a good brain game to recalculate cooking measures. And a small funny fact here: the size of French beer is 33cl….so little
- Lastly, ‘un petit’! I think French people really overuse this adjective in everyday life, whenever it’s not necessary. For example, by favourite doctor will ask me for ‘ in petit card vital’ , I will say: can I have ‘ u petit question’ and I can carry on with the examples. I’m sure you heard that also?
I hope you didn’t get me wrong here. I’m not complaining about the French lifestyle at all. I just wanted to share with you what shocked me at the beginning when I moved to France. And I want also point out how I appreciate the fact that I started to respect the rules that are in France, still being a real Pole in my heart and l can see how I improved many of habits… still searching for balance in everything as we all do. Anyways, living abroad can be very interesting and is always a great experience. How about you? Did you get any cultural shock when traveling or living abroad? Please share with me.